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Meanwhile, I do wish someone – a blogger, a sociologist, a novelist – could write a convincing explanation for why some people strike us as “soul mates” and others don’t. I know that some people, esp. men, think that this is female shorthand for “I want to have sex with him because he’s an alpha”, but that doesn’t quite seem to cover it.

In my own more cynical moments, I think that alpha status has nothing to do with falling in love. Instead, it’s a matter of matching neuroses on the part of the man and the woman.

Time to get some sleep.


dana PERMALINK
November 21, 2009 2:43 pm
While i do not believe in “one perfect soul mate”, my husband and i really do seem to be male and female versions of each other–mostly alike with a few complementary characteristics. from the day we met we were both interested in the same things (WW2, action movies, having mild aspergers syndrome, libertarianism), shared the same values and worldview. he is more rash and hotheaded than i, i am spock to his captain kirk

people have foolishly and idealistically replaced the basic concept of “compatibility” with some unattainable Platonic Form of “Soulmateness”. this is the defining characteristic of our age–the inaccessible “perfect” being the enemy of the REAL “good”.


Clarence PERMALINK
November 21, 2009 3:01 pm
I first encountered the “soul mate” idea in Elf Quest graphic novels in the early 90′s. It was kind of cool, but remember -these were telepathic and magical elves!